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Ethics at the dinner table: hard questions for every age

Children are natural philosophers. A good question at dinner can start a conversation about right and wrong that they remember.

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Why talk about ethics at home

Children face real moral questions every day: whether to tell on a friend, how to share, what’s fair. Talking about them at home, without a lecture, helps them think before they act.

Questions for every age

For younger children: is it ever okay to break a promise? Should you always tell the truth, even if it hurts someone? For older ones: should you follow a rule you think is unfair? What do we owe people we’ll never meet?

Children face real moral questions every day.

The short version

How to keep it open

Ask, then listen. Share your view as one view, with your reasons. Let your child disagree. The aim is to practise thinking carefully about what is right, not to arrive at the correct answer.

What you’ll take away

01Children face real moral questions every day.
02Ask, listen, then share your reasons.
03Practise thinking, not reciting answers.

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